Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Even careful Allergy Moms can slip up....

It was my son Nicholas' 3rd birthday on Saturday.   Happy Birthday Nick!  On Friday I baked cupcakes for his school party.  I made a safe mix(well it had eggs but Alexa would not be eating them) and bought what I thought was safe frosting from Fresh Direct.   When my delivery arrived, I noticed that the frosting containers stated "made on the same equipment as tree nuts".  I called the school to see if this was ok for the nut allergic children in my son's class and it was.  So, I made the cupcakes and put the left over vanilla frosting in the fridge.  On Saturday morning-as I was racing around to prepare for Nick's party,  I asked Alexa if she wanted vanilla or chocolate frosting on her cupcake.  She asked for vanilla with sprinkles.  I frosted it and set it aside for the party then ran off to decorate and set up.  The party went great.  The kids enjoyed the clown/puppet guy and then we sang Happy Birthday and blew out the candles.  As I was cutting the cake and handing it out, I looked over at Alexa licking the frosting off her cupcake and first thought "oh, Lexi don't eat it like that" and then I FROZE and thought "oh NO! That's the WRONG frosting!"  For a moment I could not remember if it was "may contain" or "same equipment" as tree nuts.  I excused myself, whispered to my husband and ran upstairs to check.  Thankfully it was "same equipment" and I relaxed a little but had to watch her for the rest of the afternoon.  I was really kicking myself for making such a stupid mistake.  What if it was a "may contain" frosting?  I broke my own rules about having these items in the house and put her at risk.  Thankfully, it was a very small risk.  I now have my black sharpy pen on my counter and anytime anything comes in with "same equipment" or "may contain" it's marked with big black X so everyone, including a rushed Mommy,  remembers not to feed it to Alexa.  I made an exception to my own rules and learned a good lesson in the process.  CHECK YOUR LABLES every time, follow your rules and slow down.  I'm very thankful Alexa didn't get sick Saturday since she had a friend sleeping over and that would have really ruined it.   Perhaps after reading this post people will now understand why it is difficult to trust others with our allergic kids.  Even Allergy Mom's can slip up.....

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