So we've moved to a new town and a new school. Our last move was very stressful given the planning and forethought required to keep Alexa well fed and healthy. I had no idea if I could find her safe brands or how her new school would handle her allergies. This move, thankfully, has been unusually easy from a food allergy perspective. There have been many 1st for us and I'm just overwhelmed by how great this feels! These are the "firsts" we've had in the last 2 weeks:
1.) When traveling, we stay in efficiencies so can cook or reheat meals for Alexa. This time, we opted to stay in a regular hotel, which is cheaper. We planned to order safe pizza for dinner and I brought a bagel for her breakfast the next morning. When we arrived at the hotel Alexa asked if we could eat out. (surprising since we rarely eat out with her). Next to the hotel was a restaurant named Papa Razzi. I looked up the restaurant to see what I could find about food allergies and at the bottom of the menu it stated "If anyone in your party has a food allergy, please notify your server." I decided to give it a try knowing that if they could not feed her safely (or if I was uncomfortable) I would give her the extra lunch I had packed for the trip. The staff was amazing (I'll give you all those details another time), Alexa not only had a delicious safe meal, she also had breadsticks and focaccia bread for the first time! woo hoo! Jason was actually disappointed he missed this big milestone. I'm sure it seems strange to a non-allergic family but for our family, it's a big deal.
2.) The morning of our move I stopped by her new school to drop off her records, meds, etc. I had already researched the school and knew they had an amazing allergy policy but I was overwhelmed with how thorough they were. As I was completing forms I saw a box for volunteer badges and attached was a sign that read "if you are visiting any of the following classrooms, please wash your hands prior to entering to keep our food allergic children safe" wow. Alexa's class was listed. awesome. Next, the nurse came in and met Alexa and I. She took her meds, read through everything and showed me the posters they keep around school which have photos of each allergic child and list their allergies. I was thrilled to see it but also shocked at the large number of kids on it *shakes head*. The nurse also gave me several options for Alexa's Epi Pens, wear them, teacher hand off, a set for each teacher, etc. We opted for teacher hand off and I will tell you Alexa is THRILLED her Epis are with her at all times. She said "Mom, this school is just GREAT! I mean GREAT! They bring my Epi Pens everywhere, even recess and if someone forgets them they send someone back to get them." I had no idea how much it bothered her to not know where they were stored. Physically seeing them with her all day gives her a sense of comfort. What a departure from last year. I had to email the principal the Chancellor Regulations detailing why my daughter HAD to have her Epi's within arms reach and went 4 days before finally getting them approved. When I dropped Alexa off on her first day at her new school this year, I just kissed her in the hallway and watched her go knowing she was in great hands. When I picked her up she announced there were several other kids with allergies in her class and even another 2nd grader named Alexa with a PN/TN allergy. I could tell right away she feels safe and no longer feels "different" from the other kids. What a gift!
3.) After 4 days at her new school, Alexa rode the bus for the first time. I called the bus company the Friday before and the woman was SO nice and helpful. She said "Yep, we have her listed, we know she's carrying them, we know they will be in her backpack. We will have her sit up front and all bus drivers are trained." wow. It feels so good to let my girl be just a regular kid!
4.) Last night we attended our first school party. Normally, at school events, as soon as we arrive I scope out the food and show her what's safe, what's not, and what to be aware of. Last night was the FIRST party we have been to that was completely, repeat, completely nut free!!! wow. In the craft room they had 1 food related craft and they used all safe items. (oreos, whipped cream, twizzlers, skittles). In the "Cafe" they had pizza, fruit, veggie straws, safe pretzels and water. Alexa and I came into the room, I scanned the table and I looked at Jason and said "did you see the food? No nuts, no baked goods, no candy!" I literally tear up thinking about it. For the first time EVER, I could relax at a school event and Alexa could enjoy the event without worry and without the "I wish I could eat that! I hate allergies" There was no nut residue to worry over, no little hands covered in Peanut butter touching everything-just happy kids and happy parents!
5.) After 2 years of Alexa being unhappy, anxious and/or overwhelmed about school (socially, academically, or safety wise) She is happy. She loves school! That is a "first" that makes me cry.
I know fellow allergy parents can relate to the joy and relief I feel knowing our child is finally in a school where she feels like just one of the gang. Safe, secure and able to focus on learning instead of worrying about her getting sick. My gratitude towards the PTG and the school administration for making this school safe for my daughter, is just overwhelming. I'm going to write them an email thanking them. I'm sure they know how grateful the other allergy parents are but I feel the need to remind them how amazing it is to be in an environment where the school puts the kids first and the adults could care less if there are cupcakes, candy, or CRAP served at these events.
So happy and blessed that this has been such a wonderful experience.
1.) When traveling, we stay in efficiencies so can cook or reheat meals for Alexa. This time, we opted to stay in a regular hotel, which is cheaper. We planned to order safe pizza for dinner and I brought a bagel for her breakfast the next morning. When we arrived at the hotel Alexa asked if we could eat out. (surprising since we rarely eat out with her). Next to the hotel was a restaurant named Papa Razzi. I looked up the restaurant to see what I could find about food allergies and at the bottom of the menu it stated "If anyone in your party has a food allergy, please notify your server." I decided to give it a try knowing that if they could not feed her safely (or if I was uncomfortable) I would give her the extra lunch I had packed for the trip. The staff was amazing (I'll give you all those details another time), Alexa not only had a delicious safe meal, she also had breadsticks and focaccia bread for the first time! woo hoo! Jason was actually disappointed he missed this big milestone. I'm sure it seems strange to a non-allergic family but for our family, it's a big deal.
2.) The morning of our move I stopped by her new school to drop off her records, meds, etc. I had already researched the school and knew they had an amazing allergy policy but I was overwhelmed with how thorough they were. As I was completing forms I saw a box for volunteer badges and attached was a sign that read "if you are visiting any of the following classrooms, please wash your hands prior to entering to keep our food allergic children safe" wow. Alexa's class was listed. awesome. Next, the nurse came in and met Alexa and I. She took her meds, read through everything and showed me the posters they keep around school which have photos of each allergic child and list their allergies. I was thrilled to see it but also shocked at the large number of kids on it *shakes head*. The nurse also gave me several options for Alexa's Epi Pens, wear them, teacher hand off, a set for each teacher, etc. We opted for teacher hand off and I will tell you Alexa is THRILLED her Epis are with her at all times. She said "Mom, this school is just GREAT! I mean GREAT! They bring my Epi Pens everywhere, even recess and if someone forgets them they send someone back to get them." I had no idea how much it bothered her to not know where they were stored. Physically seeing them with her all day gives her a sense of comfort. What a departure from last year. I had to email the principal the Chancellor Regulations detailing why my daughter HAD to have her Epi's within arms reach and went 4 days before finally getting them approved. When I dropped Alexa off on her first day at her new school this year, I just kissed her in the hallway and watched her go knowing she was in great hands. When I picked her up she announced there were several other kids with allergies in her class and even another 2nd grader named Alexa with a PN/TN allergy. I could tell right away she feels safe and no longer feels "different" from the other kids. What a gift!
3.) After 4 days at her new school, Alexa rode the bus for the first time. I called the bus company the Friday before and the woman was SO nice and helpful. She said "Yep, we have her listed, we know she's carrying them, we know they will be in her backpack. We will have her sit up front and all bus drivers are trained." wow. It feels so good to let my girl be just a regular kid!
4.) Last night we attended our first school party. Normally, at school events, as soon as we arrive I scope out the food and show her what's safe, what's not, and what to be aware of. Last night was the FIRST party we have been to that was completely, repeat, completely nut free!!! wow. In the craft room they had 1 food related craft and they used all safe items. (oreos, whipped cream, twizzlers, skittles). In the "Cafe" they had pizza, fruit, veggie straws, safe pretzels and water. Alexa and I came into the room, I scanned the table and I looked at Jason and said "did you see the food? No nuts, no baked goods, no candy!" I literally tear up thinking about it. For the first time EVER, I could relax at a school event and Alexa could enjoy the event without worry and without the "I wish I could eat that! I hate allergies" There was no nut residue to worry over, no little hands covered in Peanut butter touching everything-just happy kids and happy parents!
5.) After 2 years of Alexa being unhappy, anxious and/or overwhelmed about school (socially, academically, or safety wise) She is happy. She loves school! That is a "first" that makes me cry.
I know fellow allergy parents can relate to the joy and relief I feel knowing our child is finally in a school where she feels like just one of the gang. Safe, secure and able to focus on learning instead of worrying about her getting sick. My gratitude towards the PTG and the school administration for making this school safe for my daughter, is just overwhelming. I'm going to write them an email thanking them. I'm sure they know how grateful the other allergy parents are but I feel the need to remind them how amazing it is to be in an environment where the school puts the kids first and the adults could care less if there are cupcakes, candy, or CRAP served at these events.
So happy and blessed that this has been such a wonderful experience.
